Tuesday, December 21, 2010

and Scene...

Christmas break is finally here! Headed to the movies (in the middle of the flippin' day) to see a film with the Cannon girls!?!  What What!?  Two weeks of relaxation, family, food, and fun await me. Merry Christmas, everyone!!!

Monday, December 20, 2010

Christmas fun

This weekend was one of the most busy, but fun weekends I have ever had. For me, the words busy and fun don't usually go together, but this weekend was definitely an exception.

Friday nght, Steven and I were invited over to Bryan and Bridget's for Christmas dinner. Linda, Bridget's friend and assistant, made us homemade lasagna, bread, and dessert. Everything was delicious. Mr. Ray even came over and joined us, so it was a real treat. Afterward, we all sat in the living room around the fire, talked, and unwrapped our Christmas gifts. Bridget and Bryan got me the most fabulous scarf; it was made in London. (Bryan's mother was born and raised in London, so it was really special to me). It was such a peaceful evening spent with a couple that has taken us in as their own. I hope they know how much they mean to us!

Saturday, we woke up bright and early and went to the church for our last Christmas play practice before Sunday's performance. It's always fun to get together with our church, even if it is early on a Saturday morning. Afterward, Steven and I went to Bojangles for breakfast and ran some errands in town. After returning home, the rest of the afternoon, for me, was spent baking and making goody bags for our church members and co-workers, while Steven FINISHED the t.v. built-in for our living room. For those of you who are curious, below are the before and after shots of my man's work. I think it looks fantastic!
Before: Miami-Viceish mirrored shelf

During: After Steven took all the mirrors off (It was actually a lot of work!).

During: Painting the new shelf

Finished: The new and MUCH improved tv built-in!

And here is a picture of my work...This year, I did a few different versions of goody bags, but the one I am most proud of is called "Snowman Soup." On the tag, I wrote a little poem I found which says,

"When the weather outside is frightful,
Snowman Soup can be delightful.
May it warm your spirit and your soul,
Let it snow, let it snow, let it snow.

When you feel a chill or 'brrrr'
Use the peppermint stick to stir.
Add hot water and sip it slow,
Let it snow, Let it snow, Let it snow!"

The ingredients of "snowman soup" are as follows: hot cocoa mix, marshmallows, peppermint sticks, and I added some homemade cookies and candies for extra fun.

Later Saturday night, Steven and I went over to a work Christmas party hosted by the Yosts. We all brought something (I brought cheesey ranch potatoes) and ate a big dinner. Afterward, we played dirty Santa, which was pretty entertaining, especially when someone opened up a framed picture of Tom Scott, given by Tom Scott. It was pretty hysterical. Later, we played team Imagineiff before calling it a night. It was really cold outside, so it was nice to come home, curl up, and watch a Christmas movie in our warm house.

On Sunday, we were blessed by hearing a wonderful message from a special guest speaker at church. Afterward, we came home, ate lunch, and I continued making goodies for my students. At 4:30 we were back up at the church preparing for the Christmas program. We had to dress like villagers, which I found pretty amusing. The program went well, and all the children looked so cute! The best part was all the food and fellowship after the service. While we were there, Donna invited us to come with her family to see all the Christmas lights around town. We had a blast. We piled about 10 people in a mini-van and made our way around town. We even made a few unplanned stops, which turned out to be hysterical.

Only today and tomorrow remain until Christmas break!!! It cannot get here fast enough!

Thursday, December 16, 2010

Workin' for the Weekend

These days, I feel like I am doing just that...I try to tell myself, "Don't wish your life away," but with every new Monday, I find myself trying to push through and make it until Friday. Here lately, I keep repeating over and over again in my mind, "Christmas break, Christmas Break, Christmas break..."

This semester has been a challenge, to say the least. Don't get me wrong, I love my school, and I adore all of my co-workers, but I have never felt so stressed out and physically exhausted in all my life. There has been a lot going on in and out of school, which has me turning gray before my time. Steven and I spent afternoons looking at house after house, until we finally found the right one. For the past month and a half, we have been slowly but surely putting things away, and making this house feel more like a home. It has been fun, but draining, and I think it had started to affect my attitude--a lot.

For one thing, it wasn't easy leaving the comfort and security that I felt at Opelika High. While there, I developed friendships that were so deep. During my first year, Kirstin, Summer, Bryan, and I were inseperable. We would sit in my room during planning and just talk, laugh, and share about our lives, our students, and ourselves. (Maybe that's why I always had to stay late that year). They became my family during my time at OHS. Every time I think about them, I smile and remember all the great talks, laughs, and rants we shared.

I'm not gonna lie, it's been a little tough learning the ropes at the new school, but I am beginning to feel more and more at home. My co-workers at West Craven High have taken me in, and make me feel so welcome. I find myself looking forward to lunch every day because I get to share a laugh with some of the most down-to-earth and funniest women I have ever met.

With all the different things going on these days, I had started to lose sight of the reason that I chose teaching. Last week, I hit a brick wall. I felt like I had been grading research papers every night for a month (which is actually correct) because I told the students I would allow them to revise their papers before I gave them their final grade. I was exhausted, and to be honest, I was tired of teaching, reading, grading, talking, explaining...you name it, I was tired of it. And then, yesterday, something happened that put a smile on my face and made me literally tear up while sitting behind my desk. As the bell rang, and the students filed out of the classroom, a student who started the semester out with a bad attitude, who didn't try at all, and who frankly seemed to care less, came up to my podium with a Christmas card in his hand.

(Quick backstory: About a month into the semester, I sat this kid down, and we had a heart to heart. I asked him why he didn't seem to care about my class. He explained that he didn't think he was smart enough to pass, so he didn't think there was any point in trying. He went on the say that his mom worked two jobs just to keep food on the table, and that he had been thinking about quitting school to help out with money. From that moment on, I tried to make it a point to encourage him in some way every day. And slowly but surely, he started doing his work and even stayed after school for extra help. By the end of the first nine weeks, he had a 90 average, and had quickly became one of my favorite students.)

As he handed me the card, he sheepishly said, "Thanks, Mrs. Meadows, for everything," and walked out. I went over, sat down in my desk, and opened the card. On the inside he had written, "Thank you for believing in me, Mrs. Meadows. You may be the first person who ever has. Have a great Christmas."

I literally choked up. That is why I teach. That is why I grade, explain, answer questions, read, listen, and answer the same question again. It is for one moment like that...one moment that I feel like I impacted someone. That card meant to world to me, and it has made this tough semester seem like a joy.

xoxo,
Ashley

Tuesday, December 14, 2010

Graduation Project Presentations

Tonight and tomorrow night the senior English students will present their graduation research projects to a group of teachers, parents, and community members which will be the last step of this seemingly endless process. I am supposed to judge tonight and be in charge of a holding room tomorrow night. Since I have never done this before, I honestly don't know what to expect. I know that most of the students work really hard on their papers and projects throughout junior and senior year, so I am sure they will be happy when this is all over. I know I will ;)

Happy Tuesday!

xoxo

Sunday, December 12, 2010

Cammy Baby

Cam Newton won the Heisman trophy last night. I was a nervous wreck. Steven was sitting beside me holding my hand as we both repeated "Cam Newton, Cam Newton, Cam Newton" over and over again until the announcer finally said "And the 2010 Heisman trophy goes to CAMERON NEWTON!!!" We were thrilled!

xoxo

Friday, December 10, 2010

Oh, and speaking of flooring...

We ended up going with African Mahogony. Who knows if we will be fully satisfied with the result, but all the pictures in the catalogs looked really nice. I didn't want wood that was too dark or too light. Oh well, it's our first house. We'll live and learn. Happy Friday everyone!!!


Disclaimer: This is not our home. I just wanted a picture of the flooring that was more interesting than it sitting in boxes (currently all over the house); but wouldn't you just about kill for that view.
xoxo

Zaxby's














Yesterday afternoon, Steven and I went to Greenville to pick up our new flooring from Lumber Liquidators. Greenville is about a forty minute drive from our house, so we only go on special occasions. Although we were excited to get our new flooring, the thing that made the trip more fun was the fact that we could eat at Zaxby's on the way home. That's right--the closest Zaxby's is 45 minutes away!!! For all of you who know us well, you know that we are die hard Zaxby's fanatics. I honestly believe that we could eat Zaxby's every day, and sometimes did while living in Auburn...While we were sitting at the booth eating last night, Steven said, "Babe, Being here just makes me feel more like us. Like home, I guess." It made me laugh because it's funny how some things instantly take you back to a past life, or a person you used to be. For us, I guess, that place is Zaxby's...

P.S. We actually looked in to opening up a franchise in New Bern, but you have to be worth 950,000 dollars and have 500,000 dollars to pay up front...We can't even afford tickets to Glendale, so that answered our question right then and there ;)

xoxo

Tuesday, December 7, 2010

10 Things

1. Christmas music around the clock makes this girl happy. I can't help it. Listening to it makes me feel like a little kid again.

2. Grading graduation research papers is stressing me out big time! Oh well, only 30 more to go...

3. I am completly finished with all of my Christmas shopping and have been since black Friday. What a relief! Right now they are all wrapped and sitting under the tree waiting to be opened. I can't wait!

4. I love love love Christmas cards. I ordered ours two weeks ago, but they still haven't come in yet. I'm starting to get worried. Call me crazy, but I think it would be nice for everyone to get their Christmas cards BEFORE Christmas.

5. I am so happy about our Christmas tree. I love the convenience of a artificial tree, but there's just something about a real one that makes me smile. It makes the whole house smell fresh.

6. I've lost three pounds...I believe in celebrating the small victories in life ;)

7. I miss home so much it hurts sometimes. I can't wait to see everyone at Christmas!

8. Auburn is going to the National Championship in Glendale, but unless "Santa" gets a huge raise this week (not likely), it looks like Steven and I will be watching it from the comfort of our own home.

9. It's 24 degrees outside, and we had no heat in our house this morning. It keeps freezing up. The heat guy was supposed to come out and take a look at it on Friday, but he never showed. He should be there today, otherwise we're buying some space heaters (I can't handle being cold). Oh, the joys of home ownership...

10. The English Department Christmas social is tonight at Persimmon's on New Bern Riverfront. It's going to be a lot of fun!

xoxo,
Ashey

Monday, December 6, 2010

Friends+ Food+ Snow+ AU SEC Champs=One Very Happy Lady!

This weekend has been non-stop, but I wouldn't have them any other way. On Friday night, Steven and I subbed in for another couple, and attended Bryan and Bridget's Christmas supper club social. It was one of the most enjoyable and elegant dinners I have ever attended, and of course, the food was delicious!

On Saturday, I woke up early and started to prepare the food for our SEC Championship get together. I made some of Steven's favorites since I never got to cook for him on his brthday, which he shared with Thanksgiving. Later, I did a little more cleaning, while Steven frantically tried to get the built-in complete so our t.v. would have a place to stand. At 4:04 it was finished and the satalite came back on right in time for us to see the opening kick-off (we were more than a little nervous).

Brandon, Emily, Justin, and Kayla got to the house around 4:00, so we ate snacks and hung out while watching the first half of the game. The best part (other than Cam's 6 touchdowns) was that during the first quarter, we looked out the window and huge snowflakes were falling outside! I can never resist the urge to go out during even the smallest snow flurry (we don't get too many of those down in Alabama), so we walked outon the porch and took a few pictures. The rest of the game was a lot of fun to watch. I can't remember the last time Auburn went into half time ahead, so it was a nice change not to have to check my blood pressure after the game :)

Sunday Steven and I were both blessed by the youth who were in charge of leading worship. Many of them stood up and prayed, sang, played instruments, and made introductions. It is awesome to see God working in the lives of so many young people in our area. The youth have formed a band called FMJ (For My Jesus). They are really, really good! I can't wait to hear them again. Also, we were so touched by the message Emily presented. She is truly blessed with the gift of speaking from her heart. Later, I attended a Christmas shower that a lot of the ladies from Asbury threw and had a great time. Overall, great weekend!
If I wasn't so busy, I would be cuddled up on the couch watching a Christmas movie by the glow of the tree. I plan on doing that one day...

xoxo,
Ashley

Projects, Projects, Projects

Steven and I have been doing many little project/renovations/decorating to our house since the moment we moved in, a little over a month ago. After unpacking all the boxes, we sanded, primed, and painted the cabinets; worked on the heat pump; demolished a mirrored shelf and updated it with painted wood; fixed the toilet in the downstirs bathroom; unclogged the drain in the kitchen sink; and last but not least bought new flooring. After weeks of not being able to enjoy the house because of all the little projects, we have decided to take a much needed hiatus from all the work and enjoy the Christmas season in our new home. Pictures will be come later, promise ;)

Projects still on the to do list (after Christmas of course)...

- pull up all the carpet and put down new wood flooring

- strip all the wallpaper off the walls in the kitchen and dining room

- repaint the kitchen and dining rooms

- remove the popcorn ceiling and replace it with something more modern (haven't decided yet)

- repaint the bathrooms and replace hardware

- rip out a lower cabinet and install dishwasher (I can't wait until this glorious day!)

- Paint door, swing, and rockers on the front porch

- plant shrubs, bushes, flowers (something, anything to go in front of the house...suggestions needed!)

- finish off basement (Steven has dreamed of a man cave since he was a little boy...)

All of this sounds do-able, right? May take a little time... :/

xoxo,
Ashley

Monday, November 29, 2010

Thanksgiving...Better Late Than Never, I Guess

Highlights: Visiting with Steven's family in Madison, shopping at 4:00 on Black Friday, spending plenty of time on the farm, watching an amazing Iron Bowl victory, eating at Chez Pierre while out shopping in Tallahassee, and last but not least hanging out with the Fraighleighs Saturday night.

Wednesday, Steven and I left as soon as he got off work and made the long journey to Madison, which is where we spent Thanksgiving this year. We got there super late, so we slept in a little the next morning. After waking up, I ran to the groceryto get the items I needed in order to make my mom's "special" mac and cheese; it just wouldn't have felt like Thanksgiving without it :). Later, we ate a delicious Thanksgiving lunch and celebrated my Thanksgiving baby's 26th birthday. The rest of the day was spent watching movies, snacking, and hunting (for the boys).

On Friday, I joined the millions of other over zealous shoppers who ventured out before sunrise to find a good deal. What a day! All I have to say is Michael Osborn and Steven Meadows better love their gifts because I waited in line for over an hour and a half at Best Buy for them. Actually, I got all of my Christmas shopping completely finished (with the exception of one), so I was proud. Meanwhile, Steven, Conner, Mr. Steve and the rest of the boys went out hunting (I believe you will recognize a pattern here). I met Mrs. Theo and Mrs. Sidney at Covington's in downtown Valdosta for an early lunch before making it home to watch the big game.

At 2:30 we were all sitting in front of the t.v. ready for the Iron Bowl to begin. Although Auburn got off to a very ugly start, our boys showed up in the second half to win the game 28-27. To say we were excited would be an understatement. I was so happy to see our boys fight their way back and win (especially since they were playing at Bryant-Denny).

Saturday I woke up with a smile on my face and got ready to go shopping in Tallahassee with Mrs. Theo and Mrs. Sidney. It was a lot of fun, but since I had already made all my Christmas purchases, I mostly just looked around. Later, Mrs. Sidney insisted that we go to this cute French restaurant called Chez Pierre, which we often eat at when visiting Tallahassee. It is always delicious, and the atmosphere makes you feel as though you are at a cafe in Paris.

Later Saturday evening, we made our way over to Jay and Donna Fraleigh's home. They had invited us all over for dinner, and I couldn't wait to see them. They are the sweetest people, and Donna is an excellent cook. We actually found out that they lived in a town only fifteen minutes from us in North Carolina for the first five years of their marriage. I love spending time with all of Steven's relatives, so we had a lot of fun!

Yesterday, we woke up early, packed our bags, and got on the road headed back. The trip is only supposed to take 10 hours, but we stretched it out to 13 1/2 after sitting in traffic and taking a lot of back roads...

All in all, we had a super time this Thanksgiving, but it feels weird not knowing how long it will be until we see everyone again. Hopefully it will be sooner rather than later...I hope you all had a very blessed and happy Thanksgiving as well!

Wednesday, November 24, 2010

Auburn Halloween Costume Contest


This one just makes me laugh :)

Tuesday, November 23, 2010

Auburn Tiger Walk Video


I don't blame you, Bama. If I was playing Auburn, I wouldn't let them have Tiger Walk either; but I don't think it's going to matter. In the words of Mr. Newton himself, "We comin'."

Monday, November 22, 2010

"Lean On Me"


In honor of Iron Bowl week, I'm going to share a few of my favorite Auburn moments of the 2010 season, both on and off the field.

A Blogger on Hiatus

So, we've been a little busy...

This week, Steven and I did a few DIY renovation projects, which have been both exciting and exhausting. We finally got the t.v. we ordered, but decided we were over zealous about the size and sent it back. I know some of you are thinking, "How can you think a t.v. is too big?" My answer, I enjoy a big t.v. as much as the next person, but for our modest size living room, it was just too much. We took it back and got one that is perfect for our needs. Maybe one day when we complete the basement renovation, we will get one of those massive completely-take-over-your-room-monstosities that will please the masses. Later in the week, Steven got an early birthday gift when we purchased a table saw (huge sale at Sears), which he needs to be able to do a lot of the upcoming projects and renovations. Needless to say, there has been very little time for blogging around the Meadows' household. Here's a little sample of our progress, if you're interested.

First, we took all the doors off the cabinets in the kitchen and removed the hardware. Then, we Kilzed and painted them once, twice, and today will be three times (a lady, or a kitchen cabinet in this case). We also started a project in the living room, which consisted of Steven removing--the only word I can think to describe it is--a Miami Vice-ish mirrored shelving unit and replacing it with wood shelves, which will serve as a our (modest) t.v. stand. Pictures and more details to come!

This is an exciting process, albeit time consuming. However, it feels good to be working on our OWN place. A place that we will be able to enjoy for years to come. Have a great Monday everybody!

Saturday, November 13, 2010

Saturday School

Growing up, I always heard threats about having to go to school on Saturday if we were out for too many weather days. Well, here I am...age 26...in school...at 7:30 in the morning...on a Saturday. Boo.

Steven is sleeping soundly at home.

I am pretty jealous if you couldn't tell.

Friday, November 12, 2010

It's not about winning


Michael sent me this link, and I just had to share it. God bless!

MAT Test

If you have a minute, please say a prayer for me this afternoon. I am taking the MAT test in order to get into graduate school. I have applied at East Carolina University, but first, I have to do well enough on this test to get in to the program. Hopefully, it won't be too hard since I studied a good bit. If all works out, I will start my master's in school administration this summer!!!

Tuesday, November 9, 2010

We're In!

The past few days have been a complete blurr. A good blurr. A blessed blurr.

On Friday, Steven left work a little early and flew down to Auburn to help load up all our stuff on a HUGE U-Haul. Seriously, I don't know if I've ever seen one that big. Early Saturday morning, Steven met his mom, brother, two uncles, cousin, T-Burdg, Michael, Betsy, Dad, and Taylor at the storage unit. Steven said it was freezing, but everyone was upbeat and completely helpful. Afterward, Aunt Janet hosted a family brunch at her house before he got on the road. Meanwhile, Mr. Steve (who was supposed to be on a "business trip") drove up from Myrtle Beach and helped with the move. Poor Steven didn't get home until after midnight Saturday.

After church on Sunday, the move began! For the past few weeks people had been volunteering to help, so Sherry compiled a list and gave each person a specific job. We had over 30 people at our house helping Sunday afternoon. What a blessing! I have never been around a church that was so committed to serving others. The people at Asbury came over not only without complaining, but actually happy to help. What a testimony of how all Christians should act. I have already learned so much from the members of Asbury, and I know that I will continue to grow and learn more as the years go by.















































































For lunch, some of the ladies bought a ton of chicken and BBQ from Smithfield's, which is a crowd favorite around here. I will never be able to thank everyone who helped on Sunday enough. I was truly touched! Thank you, Mr. Steve, for the pictures!
































Status on house as of right now...We love it. It's a COMPLETE mess. It's starting to feel more and more like home. We're happy and blessed.

xoxo,
Ashley

Saturday, November 6, 2010

The Real Cam Newton


Cam started mentoring four boys back in August and consistently makes himself a part of their lives.
"All I do is READ, READ, READ no matter what..."

Thursday, November 4, 2010

Today is the big day!

Well, after much searching, thinking, discussing/arguing, and praying we are finally closing on our very first home. We are meeting at the bank this afternoon to sign all the paperwork, which I have heard feels like you are signing away your life, but I couldn't be more excited to do it! However, today is sort of anti-climatic in a way because although we get the keys to our house, all of our stuff is still in storage in Auburn. Steven is flying down Friday afternoon to pack up the U-Haul with Dad, Taylor, Conner, Michael, Betsy, and Mrs. Theo. Hopefully everything will go smoothly and all our stuff will make the 11 hour trek back up north. More details later. Happy Thursday, everybody!

Wednesday, November 3, 2010

Weekend with the Meadows

This weekend was a lot of fun, and it was great to see Mr. Steve and Mrs. Theo! They arrived at around 3:30 Friday afternoon, so when I pulled up, I found them sitting just where Steven thought they would be---in the swing. We talked and caught up a little before getting ready to go out to dinner. We took them to Persimmon's, which is a restaurant located right on the water in downtown New Bern. It is practically a brand new building, so everything about it is super modern. I love going to Persimmon's because the atmosphere is unlike anywhere else in New Bern.

On Saturday, we woke up, ate breakfast, and made our way to the fall festival, which was hosted by both Asbury and Bethany (our church and another church in the community). It was awesome and completely free to the public. There were bounce houses, games, and tons of food. It was so great to be able to introduce Mr. Steve and Mrs. Theo to all the poeple that have meant so much to us since moving to North Carolina. Later, we toured the farmer's market and walked around all the shops downtown before eating lunch at Cow Cafe (our favorite little sandwich & ice cream shop). After lunch, we came back home to rest before the Auburn game. Steven took his parents on a tour of the farm, while I got the food ready for dinner. Later, we watched the game and ate dinner with Bryan, Bridget, Emily, Brandon, and Mr. Ray. It was a great game and even better company.

On Sunday, we all got ready and went to church, which was really a blessing. Afterwards, we ate taco soup and club sandwiches for lunch. Then, while Steven took his dad on another tour of the farm, Mrs. Theo and I went to TJ Max to do a little shopping (it's been a long time!). I got a new down comforter for one of the beds and a little something for my sisters' upcoming birthday. Later that night, we all went out to Famous for what I think is the best food in New Bern. I have never had anything there that wasn't DELICIOUS!

Although the weekend went by fast, it was great to get to spend some time with them, and hey---Thanksgiving's not to far away :)

xoxo,
Ashley

Thursday, October 28, 2010

Auburn vs. LSU (10-23-10) - Tunnel Video Reaction


This is the crowd's reaction to the tunnel video. Pretty exciting!

Monday, October 25, 2010

The Future Talberts (and a little AU football)

This weekend, I had the pleasure of co-hosting a shower with Bekah McGee for Katie Stringfellow and David Talbert. I already shared in my last post that these two people are amazing, and have been great friends to me and Steven for a long time. It was really great to be able to do something for them to celebrate their upcoming marriage.

Friday night was a lot of fun! First, Katie took us out to a chic little Italian restaurant, which is conveniently located just below here physical therepy building. The food was great, the atmosphere was cool, and the company was perfect! We had a great time just catching up with Katie and hearing about all of her upcoming wedding plans.

Will, Bekah's hubby, is interning at the church that Katie and David attend, so they pulled some strings and allowed us to use a room for the shower. I love couples' showers because they are always so much more relaxed than other types. Bekah and I made a lot of fall themed foods and also brought apple cider and "FBCO Parlor Approved" punch (recipe in the Baptist Bounty) to drink. There was a great turn out of people for the shower, and all of the friends Katie and David have made in Raleigh are so nice and fun.

As soon as the clock struck 4:00 we started cleaning, and you wouldn't believe how fast we did it in so we could make it back to the apartment to watch the Auburn vs. LSU game that had already started. Record time for sure...We ate BBQ and watched the game (with great delight, I might add) at Katie's apartment. It was fun watching with fellow Auburners!

Oh Auburn, how do I love thee? Let me count the ways. I love that when I watch an Auburn game, I feel at home. Not just because I actually have family that still lives there, but because that's what we all are there...family. I love that nobody thought we would win this season...didn't believe in us, but we believed. Even in the tough years, Auburn fans love and believe in their team. No matter what happens throughout the rest of the season, just like the creed states, "Because Auburn men and women believe in these things, I believe in Auburn and love it!"

xoxo,
Ashley

Friday, October 22, 2010

Raleigh here we come!

Steven and I are leaving this afternoon to go to Raleigh for the weekend. We are staying with our great friend Katie Stringfellow--soon to be Talbert. I CANNOT WAIT TO SEE HER!!! Katie was one of my beautiful bridesmaids and did so much to make our day special! We are also so excited to see David. He makes me laugh and always has something positive and uplifting to say. What a great couple they make!!!


Bekah Scoggins McGee and I are co-hosting a "Fall in Love with the Future Talberts" couples shower for Katie and Daivid. As you can probably guess, everything is fall themed. I am making pumkin bars (yumm), bacon cocktail weinies, spinich dip, apples and caremel dip, and hot apple cider (Shelia Osborn taught me well). I went by Mrs. Marietta's (Bridget's mom) house and she let me borrow a ton of stuff. This lady had everything imaginable for hosting a shower, wedding, or elegant dinner party. It was definitely over the top! I like her style, though, because I tend to go a litle overboard myself sometimes :)

Have a great weekend everyone! War Eagle!

xoxo,
Ashley

Thursday, October 21, 2010

Changing States

So, changing states isn't easy...

It seems that the U.S. wants you to jump through hoops in order to move out of state. No wonder so many people live and die in the same place. First, we had to change our insurance over to a North Carolina company. Today, I am taking a test to get a new NC driver's license. A TEST!!! I have been driving for 10 years, and I'm still not sure what a 3-point turn looks like. I was supposed to get new NC tags for my car (p.s. we just bought new Alabama tags in May--total waste of money), but it is their policy to wait until the official license come back in the mail before you can get a new tag. So, I guess that will be something for next week...

FYI...you basically have to give over your first born to these people in order for them to believe you actually live in this state.

On a brighter note, I went to the grocery store yesterday afternoon and got all the stuff I am supposed to bring for Katie and David's shower this weekend. I am so so so excited to see them! It's been way too long! I'll let you know how it goes. Happy Thursday, everybody!

xoxo,
Ashley

Workshop

Yesterday, three of my co-workers and I went to an ESL workshop at the board of education. Although you never know what you are going to get when you sign up for one of those things, I thoroughly enjoyed my day. The speaker was entertaining, friendly, and approachable. I learned a lot about what I need to do differently to be a more effective teacher to my ESL (English as a Second Language) students.

I also got to hang out with some pretty cool people. It is so great to move to a new place and find people that make you feel so welcome. We got to do a good bit of group work and were treated to an hour and a half lunch break! It was a really fun day! Now back to the real world...

xoxo,
Ashley

Monday, October 18, 2010

WCHS Homecoming Week

Last week, I experienced my first Homecoming/Spirit week at West Craven. Monday was Mascot Day. I've gotta say, it was so weird not seeing Auburn and Alabama t-shirts covering the halls. Instead, there was a sea of purlple and gold (East Carolina Pirates), red and white (NC State Wolfpack), and even some Carolina and Duke blue (Who even knew they had a football team?). Tuesday, was Twisted Tuesday, which meant that the boys dressed like girls and the girls dressed like boys. It was highly entertaining, believe me. Wednesday was Wacky Tacky Day, so I think you can do the math there...Thursday was Salad Dressing Day, which meant that the kids dressed like their favorite salad dressing (i.e. ranch--cowboy, thousand island--islanders, Greek--togas, Italian, French, etc.). Friday, of course, was Spirit Day, so the kids dressed in red, white, and blue. In the afternoon, the whole school went to the pep rally, which was a lot of fun. It was good to see the kids show some pride and spirit for their school.

Steven and I went with Brandon and Emily to the WCHS Homecoming game Friday night, and although our team has had a tough season so far, they pulled out a major win. It was great to the boys and coaches so excited after the game. While we were there, we met up with some other friends and had a really good time.

xoxo,
Ashley

Disclaimer: Excited Auburn Alumni Rambling

I am so proud of my Auburn Tigers! It seems as though every Saturday I am on the edge of my seat during our games. This week was no exception, until the last quarter when things started to drastically swing in our direction. I am not the first and definitely not the last to say this, but Cam Newton is a Beast!

Last night, Steven and I watched the BCS countdown on ESPN, and we were very pleased with how the computers ranked us. It's about dang time...The BCS has Auburn ranked #4!!! I've never been much of a BCS fan, but yesterday, I felt that we finally got some recognition. Next week's game against LSU and the Mad Hatter will be tough, but I have faith that our boys will do their best. I wish I was there to experience all the action first hand, but I'll have to settle for t.v. this time. I have a feeling we are going to be eating a lot of cajun food at our house this week! War Eagle!

xoxo,
Ashley

Sunday, October 10, 2010

Weekend Fun!

This weekend has been one for the record books. Friday night, Bryan, Bridget, Steven, and I went to eat at 37th Street and then went to see Secretariat at the movies. The movie was soooo good. A must see! I am not a big horse person, but even for me, the movie was inspirational. It didn't necessarily inspire me to go get on a horse, but I did add a trip to the Kentucky Derby to my bucket list :)

Yesterday, Steven and I went to Mumfest in downtown New Bern with a few people from Asbury. There were a lot of people there. The streets were filled with vendors, food, rides, shows, and games. We started by getting a bite to eat at Morgan's then headed out to see the sights. Although there was a lot to do, it was also really hot out, so we only stayed for a couple of hours. We went to the Farmer's Market, listened to musicians in the Bank of the Arts, and shopped at all the little booths. Afterward, we ran a few errands in town then headed home.
Brandon , Emily, Steven, and I outside of Morgan's

the girls from Asbury outside the farmer's market

Upon our arrival, we learned that the Saban nation was losing to South Carolina. Although I love and respect my parents, sister, and brother, and only want good things for them, this news brought a smile to my face. We watched the rest of the game and honestly couldn't believe the outcome. The Sabanator usually finds a way to pull out a W, but ol' Spurrier got one for the Gamecocks this time.

Anyway, for dinner I made baked club sandwich rounds and warmed up veggie soup I had made earlier in the week. We watched the first half of the Auburn game with great pride...the second half we watched with great worry; however, our "cardiac" tigers pulled out another W, and I didn't think I could have been prouder UNTIL I checked the rankings this afternoon and saw that Auburn is ranked #7 in the nation and #1 in the SEC!!!
This morning at Asbury was amazing. It was Homecoming week (p.s. Steven had never heard of an old-fashioned homecoming, so I had to fill him in on what to expect). The church was completely packed out, and the service was better than ever. Afterward, we made our way to the fellowship hall, and I can honestly say I have never seen so much food in all my life! Everything was delicious and it was an absolutely gorgeous day!

Now it's back to the real world of cleaning the house, doing laundry, and grading papers.

xoxo,
Ashley

Friday, October 8, 2010

I love fall!

I love fall sooooo much! Honestly, I love the changing of seasons in general, but there is something about crisp air, warm jackets, and fun festivals that really make me happy. In my opinion fall is the most beautiful time of the year--especially when the leaves begin to turn all different shades of red, orange, and yellow. I love passing by homes with big mums planted by the mailbox or in flower pots, while huge pumpkins decorate the front porch.


This weekend, the city of New Bern is hosting the 30th Anual Mumfest and I am so excited! There are going to be all sorts of muscians to listen to, yummy things to eat, and vendors and booths for shopping. Since we are new here, we have obviously never been to this festival before, but we have heard only good things about it from all of our friends. We plan to go to Mumfest tomorrow morning until early afternoon. I can't wait!
Then tomorrow evening, we will be watching our Auburn Tigers play/hopefully defeat Kentucky. I am so proud of our team this year. We have some rough spots, but overall, we have really improved since last season. It's great to see a great Christian influence and man like Coach Chizik be so successful out on the football field.

Looking forward to the weekend! I'll let you know how it goes!

xoxo,
Ashley

Wednesday, October 6, 2010

Bad Blogger

Hi, I'm Ashley, and I've been a very bad blogger...

It seems like forever since I have written. I always think about writing, but then something else comes up, and I mistakingly forget about all my previous thoughts. It's a symptom of being an educator. I suffer from short term memory loss at the end of each day. Seriously. No matter how many things I tell myself that I have to complete after the students leave, it never fails that I sit down at my desk and my brain is empty. It's like I have used it to its capacity for the day. I have just enough brain cells left to find my car in the parking lot and figure out my way home.

Anyway, a lot has happened since I last wrote. Namely, we were approved for our loan on the house, Steven had a small wreck in the old Jeepers, and we experienced our first flood due to Tropical Storm Nicole.

I'll start with the house news...Steven and I are officially grown-ups and are now less than a month a way from closing on our first house! We are so very excited/ anxious/ worried/ remorseful. I know it sounds weird to be remorseful over a house that we both really want, but we are spending A LOT of money on this. I'm the type to get buyers remorse after making a twenty-five dollar dress purchase at Target (if you don't believe me, ask my sisters). This purchase makes my chest feel down-right heavy. However, the Bible says, "Do not be anxious over anything," so that's my new motto.

In an ironic twist of fate, Steven, a.k.a. granny driver, was involved in a car wreck last Wednesday afternoon. Luckily it wasn't his fault and everyone involved was fine; however, with his Jeep being on it's way over the hill, we still haven't found out what the other insurance company is going to do as far as fixing it goes. We are praying that it is not totaled because we love his car! If you have a minute, say a little prayer that the damage done won't be more than the total value.

Lastly, Steven and I experienced our first Tropical Storm flooding. Everyone kept recanting, "Well, welcome to Eastern North Carolina," which leads me to believe that this won't be our last bout with flood waters. There was no damage done to Brian and Bridget's (our landlords and friends) house although we were completely surrounded by water for four days. Little did I know that when I pulled in the driveway Wednesday afternoon, I would not be back out until Saturday night. It was crazy and I definitely have never seen anything like it in my life.

Picture Below: Steven and Bryan boating through the field. It was pretty entertaining.
All in all, it's been an eventful month to say the least. Sorry Liz, I am going to try and be a better blogger from now on.

xoxo,
Ashley

Thursday, September 23, 2010

Home Alone

This week, Steven went to Seattle, Washington, on a business trip. He left very early Monday morning and will not be home until Friday morning. It's been weird without him here. I can't lie, it was nice to have some time to get a few things done that I would have otherwise put off, but I miss him a lot. Being away from home has made me really appreciate my husband more. He is not only my soul mate but my best friend. I tell him everything as we share our lives together. He is the most loyal and dependabe person I know, and would do just about anything for those he cares about. I am lucky to have him in my life.

Hurry home, Babe!

xoxo,
Ashley

Friday, September 17, 2010

Game Day in Auburn

I am so excited about Game Day in AU tomorrow! Even though I won't be there physically, I will be able to see our beautiful campus and all the excited students throughout the day. I know that everyone down there is so so pumped for the big day. I even told my students in NC about it. They are going to watch, and hopefully, learn more about the most beautiful village on the plains. I have all sorts of AU memorabilia posted around my classroom (provided so kindly by Betsy and Michael). A lot of my students have been asking me what's so special about Auburn. I am quick to answer, "What's not special about Auburn? It's beautiful, the weather is awesome (I ususally leave out the part about the pollen), the people are courteous and friendly (family, if you will), and the atmosphere is second to none!" I think I may have a few converts in the making. War Eagle from North Carolina!

xoxo,
Ashley

Wednesday, September 15, 2010

Inspection

The inspector comes today to check out "our" house. Steven and I are praying that everything goes well, and that there is no major problems. We hope you all will say a prayer as well. I have had requests to see pictures, but I really want to wait until we for sure have the house before I post pics.

Steven made a mistake the other day by telling me to make a list of projects that I would ever want to do for the house. So, I made a list. Steven claimed it was overwhelming, and maybe it was a little. But he told me to do it. After looking it over and doing some prioritzing, we have narrowed down our top five projects that must be done on the house. They are as follows:

1. Pull up the 70's shag carpeting in the foyer and up the stairs and replace it with wood.

2. Paint all the cabinets in the kitchen and replace the countertops. (We have tons of ideas :)

3. Install a dishwasher. (That's right. You heard me...there is no dishwasher!)

4. Completely seal the basement.

5. Plant bushes in front and do some work on the landscaping.

This list is much less overwhelming than the list I handed Steven, I assure you. Say a little prayer for "our" house today!

xoxo,
Ashley

Friday, September 10, 2010

Waiting

I am not good at waiting. I never have been. However, I am married to the most patient person in the world, so I am trying to learn as much as I can about this "hardest of all virtues".

Steven and I are currently in the process of buying a home. However, we have made it out of the "exciting" part (looking at all the different homes in the community) to the "hard" part (waiting on financing and contracts). Although I love living with Bryan and Bridget, I have to admit that we are ready to get a place of our own to call home. There will be a million things that I will miss about our current situation (i.e. being surrounded by two Godly Christian examples, eating good food prepared by a great cook, always having somthing to do or someone to talk to, etc.). However, Steven and I need to "grow up" and get a home to start our life in.

We have our eyes set on one home that is just a little ways from where we are currently living. It is an older home, but in great condition. Of course, there are a few cosmetic changes we would like to make, but overall, the home is completely livable. Right now, we are playing the waiting game and praying that everything works out. The Lord has been so faithful to meet all of our needs so far. We are trusting that He will lead us to the right people, banks, and funds. Keep us both in your prayers.

xoxo,
Ashley

Saturday, September 4, 2010

AU Opening Day

Today, I am full of mixed emotions. I don't think it hit me until this morning that Steven and I are permanent residents of North Carolina. Up until now, I have felt like a visitor. Now that Auburn is starting their season, I realize that we aren't going to be there for any of it. For the past eight years, I have lived in Auburn and proudly cheered for the tigers. I will still proudly cheer for them here, but football here is like basketball back home. People go to the games and support their team, but they aren't heartbroken after a loss of full of pride when their teams pulls off a win.


Let's just say that they don't define fall with football. I do. When I think about fall, I think about Jordan-Hare Stadium,. I think about tailgating with all of my friends. I think about all the great food (Betsy's chicken/bacon wraps, Jonathan's buffalo chicken dip, Michaels perfect hamburgers, etc.) and fun we have waiting on each game to start. I think about my Auburn family because that's what we are at Auburn--a family. We love each other, celebrate with one another, are there for each other. I loved my time at Auburn and miss it terribly, but I know that there is another little crew there that will fill in the spots of those who have come and gone. War Eagle family!

Below are just a few pictures that I had to post.

xoxo,
Ashley

Friday, September 3, 2010

All is Well

To all of you who called, emailed, facebook messaged me, or offered us a place to evacuate, Steven and I are fine. I honestly had no idea there was a hurricane. I can tell you this, there have been much worse thunder and lightning storms here than what we experienced last night. Steven and I went to bed at 11:00, and it wasn't even raining outside. I thought I might wake up during the night, but I slept soundly. Thank you all so much for your concern, prayers, and well wishes! I hope you have a marvelous Labor Day weekend!!!

xoxo,
Ashley

Thursday, September 2, 2010

Early Release

Our school releases at 1:00 this afternoon, which means it still counts as a full day (we don't have to make it up).

I am so pumped.

Steven is so jealous.

I love being a teacher :)

xoxo,
Ashley

Wednesday, September 1, 2010

Big Earl

So, they tell me there's a hurricane a brewin' in the Atlantic...

I, Ashley McCulloch Meadows, am a total storm person. Since I have never been through anything majorly damaging or terrifying, I have had no reason thus far to be scared of storms. In all actuality, I have a lot of fond weather related memories...

When I was a little girl, I remember Mom and Dad packing us up in the van and taking us over to the MacPhees to ride out tornado warnings. I was always so excited to go because the MacPhees had a full basement in their house, which was full of toys, rollerblades, and games. We would spend hours down there, waiting until all the adults felt like the tornado had passed.

There were other times when there would be thunder and lightning so bad that it would knock the power out. All four of us kids would sleep in a huge pallet in the living room floor. We would gather up all the blankets in the house and throw them together for the ultimate "air mattress." I remember sitting up talking and laughing with Betsy, Whitney, and Taylor for hours, or until Dad yelled for us to go to sleep.

In college, I vividly remember Hurricane Ivan because me, Taylor, Steven, Austin, and Patrick hunkered down at their duplex and had a great hurricane party. When the power was on, we played Mario Cart and cooked dinner. Later when the power went out, we put together puzzles, played cards, and told stories. We laughed so much that weekend! Thankfully, all Auburn got out of Ivan was a lot of wind and rain.

Also, I have been in a couple of snow storms, which are my absolute favorite! We have had snow the past three years in Auburn, and each one has made for a lot of fun (and mandatory days out of school :). One year, all of our friends met over at Halal Court to wait out the storm. Michael brought over his Nintendo 64, and needless to say, we had a great time. One year, we woke up on a Sunday morning to a blanket of snow covering everything. Steven and I drove his Jeep to First Baptist and worshipped the Lord while the snow continued to fall. After the service, we went over to his parents' house and made snow men with Conner and Katie. So much fun!

So, here's hoping that this hurricane goes on by and leaves no damage in its path. Maybe it will just be another fun weather experience to add to the list!

xoxo,
Ashley

Sunday, August 29, 2010

Friends

Why should I still be surprised that God provides all of our needs. Like I've mentioned before, Steven and I were scared that we wouldn't be able to find friends since we are living in such a small community, but God provides.

Emily and I decided while we were on our way home from the WCHS game that we both needed a little girls day, so she picked me up Saturday morning, and we made our way to Baker's Square in downtown New Bern for breakfast. It is an Amish owned restaurant, and let me tell you, it was delicious. Emily ordered French toast and I got a gravy biscuit. Everything was so oversized that there was no way you could eat it all (well I could probably eat it all, but I would have been sick for the rest of the day).

After stuffing our faces, we made our way to Morehead City to go to a teacher's store called Teacher's Pet. Emily teaches 4th grade at one of the Elementary schools that feeds into WCHS, and I wish you could see her classroom. It is like a work of art. She and her husband, Brandon, spent a lot of time in her classroom this summer, and it definitely shows. Anyway, we both got a few things for our classrooms and made a quick trip to Target and Harris Teeter.

Some of you may be thinking, "Okay, the title of this blog says 'Friends', so get to it." So here it is...Emily has been an answered prayer of mine. I really enjoy hanging out with her. We are a lot alike, and enjoy a lot of the same things. It was a great day spent with a really good friend!

xoxo,
Ashley

My First Week at WCHS

I have had a great experience, so far, at WCHS. The teachers came back to school on the 19th, so we had four days to get everything ready for the students who returned on the 25th (Wednesday). I met so many nice people, who have been so warm and helpful to me. I feel so blessed to be able to work with so many friendly people.

Okay, so I admit it...I thought transitioning to another states course of study and teaching a different grade wouldn't be too much for me to handle. I arrogantly thought, "Oh, I've been doing this for three and a half years. I can figure all of this out in no time." Couln't have been more wrong. EVERYTHING is different from Alabama. The books they teach are different, the Writing Assessment test is different, and their expectations are very different. I spent the better part of last week at the school trying to figure out my curriculum and make a 90 day plan to turn in to administration. Now that it is almost completed, I feel much better about what I'm doing and SOOOO much more prepared.

I finally met my students on Wednesday, and I have to say, I am very pleased with everyone in my class. I mean, of course there are always going to be a few "Chatty Cathys", but all in all, they were very well behaved. I am looking forward to getting to know them much better over the coming months.

Steven and I went to our first WCHS Eagle football game with Emily and Brandon. We had a lot of fun hanging out and talking with them and all of my new teacher friends, but we got killed by New Bern High. New Bern High is a bigger school and in a different conference, but the rivalry is still bitter (much like my alma mater, LCHS vs. Hatton game). I felt bad for the boys and coaches because they really wanted to beat New Bern...there's always next year.

Overall, great week at WCHS! I'm excited about the rest of the semester!

Wednesday, August 18, 2010

Last day...

Today is my last day off. I have had an especially long summer break this time around because in Alabama we got out of school May 21st. North Carolina kids didn't get out until June 12th, which means they don't come back to school until August 25th. I go in tomorrow for workdays and professional development. I will have four days to do a total renovation of my professional life and get everything in order.

I have enjoyed being off work, although I have found that the more I am off the more useless I become. Steven and I live in a small apartment right now, so there isn't much to keep clean. Bridget cooks all the time and never hesitates to invite us to join them. We don't have a yard to take care of or kids to play with (yet). Needless to say, I have had a lot of time to myself. I hope I haven't become too much of a loner.

I am nervous about tomorrow. I don't know anyone, but I am sure it will be a lot of fun. I have butterflies like I did when I first began teaching at OHS. Say a prayer for me. Anyway, I'm off to the school to get some owrk done and then to treat myself to a pedicure ;)

Saturday, August 14, 2010

(an early) War Eagle!

Auburn football is less than a month a way. I wanted to pay tribute to this momentous occasion with a little picture diary of sorts. War Eagle!

Me and husband (not then, of course) opening game day 2006.

All of the girls waiting for the student gates to open (2008).


"Go big or go home!" (Opeining Game 2007)


LSU game with the girls (2008)



My two favorite Auburn doctors (Beat LSU game)!


My two favorite Auburn fans (LSU 2008)!


Rolling Toomer's corner (2007)


Osborns + McCullochs = Auburn Family (2007)


Tailgating (2009)


Sue and I with the boys (2006)


Rolling Toomer's corner after beating Bama (2006).


The year of the thumb (2006).


Holdin' it down since 2002.

After beating Florida (2005).


"It's great to be an Auburn Tiger!"